Just some thoughts:
I believe one of the best gifts one can give another in a relationship is the matter of “Space.” No, I’m talking about outer space. Sometimes maybe that is where we would like to “put some one” in outer space.
To learn what works for each in a relationship and how to keep that relationship fresh and special.
“Winnie understood who Arnold Palmer was and what Arnold was and she understood how to handle him, and she handled him beautifully. And that’s probably why Barbara handles me the way she does. I think Arnold had his freedom to do pretty much what he wanted to do except when Winnie said, ‘Arnold, we’re not going to do that.’ She let Arnold be Arnold, and then all of a sudden she’d say ‘We’re not doing that.’ And he responded very well to her. Barbara pretty much lets me be me until she see me a little offline or out of kilter.” Spoken by Jack Nicklaus
Men In Green–Michael Banberger
I believe that is one of the best gifts two people can give one another. Space to be who they are and yet comfortable enough should an occasion arise that the respect is so mutual that one can say “We’re not going to do that” and agreement is there.
Lucky is the person/ the couple who finds themselves in such a relationship.
October 5, 2018
Posted November 15, 2018