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FATHERLY ADIVCE

June 30, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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                                       FATHERLY ADVICE 
 
 
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Words we all probably have heard in our lifetime. Maybe on the receiving and then years later said on the giving end:
                             “Let me give you some fatherly advice.”
 
Recently I heard of two pieces of advice a father (parents) gave their daughter. I thought they were worth sharing. One as being an old driver’s training teacher also a father of three children, I heartily agree with both.
 
One:”When driving always assume the other car will do something stupid and cover your brake going through an intersection.”  
 
Two: “Always treat people like they’re hurting because in some way they probably are.” 
 
Not a lot can be added to those two pieces of fatherly advice.
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June 26, 2019
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Larry Adamson

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REMEMBRANCE OF OTHERS

June 29, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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                                                Roger Peterson

                            REMEMBRANCE OF OTHERS

Today as I took a country drive in one of my old cars (55’Thunderbird) I slipped in a Buddy Holly cd and I was reminded of this story.

So often it is so easy to be caught up in one’s own grief that one can fail to think of others in theirs.

“We are crushed by this terrible tragedy and the loss of our son, and we know you are suffering the same. We have never known before the grief and suffering from the death of a loved one but we do know now, and our hearts go out to you because we know what you are going through. We will keep you in our prayers.”
              Everyday”Getting Closer to Buddy Holly–                                                     Spencer Leigh
This was a letter that Ella Holley sent to the family of twenty-one year old Roger Peterson eleven days after the plane crash in which her son Buddy Holly, JP Richardson, Richie Valens and Peterson all lost their lives in February of 1959. Peterson was the pilot on that fatefully night.
Remembering, thinking of another in one’s grief. Speaks well of one.
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July 1, 2019
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Larry Adamson

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YOU GOT TO KNOW WHEN TO HOLD THEM

June 28, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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“And you best also know when to fold them.”

I immediately recognized him as he walked into my coffee place. As he passed by my table I said, “You gotta know when to hold them and know when to fold them.” He did a quick glance at me and said, “I’ll get my coffee and be right back.”

As he approached my table, I said, “You picked a fine time to leave me Lucille, with four hungry kids and crop in the field. I’ve had some good times, been through some bad times, but this time your hurtin’ won’t heal.” This was my meeting with the two time Grammy award winner, Country Hall of Fame songwriter, Don Schlitz.

We talked for some time, and he could not have been more humble and kinder with my questioning of his writing. In fact, he took out a song he said he had just written a week or so earlier and wanted me to look at the words and asked me what I thought. “What me, look at your writing?” “Well, anyone quoting my lyrics to me first thing over morning coffee, yes, I’d like them to take a look.”

When Kenny Rogers spoke at Schlitz’s induction into the Song Writers Hall of Fame said: “He is brilliant, unpredictable, compassionate and wise.” Schlitz told me that Rogers now asks for a first look at anything he writes.

Some years ago I had the good fortune to meet and spend some time backstage with Rogers before one of his performances. At that time he was riding the wave of success with the classic song Schlitz had penned, “The Gambler.”

Rogers was equally kind as Schlitz was on this morning. In fact, Rogers invited me to play his private golf course. Later on one of my trips back from the Master’s in Augusta to New Jersey, I stopped just outside of Albany, Georgia, where Rogers was living at the time. Along with the tournament director from the Georgia State Golf Association, I played his course. Rogers personally designed every hole; it was his private sanctuary, very private. We, along with Roger’s dog, were the only two playing on the course that day.

Don Schlitz often plays a songwriter’s venue, the Bluebird, here on the west side of Nashville. He does a nine p.m. show that he calls, “Dollar night with Don.” If you ever have the opportunity to go, do so. I can assure you, you will get more than your money’s worth.

Oh by the way, one of the greatest song lines ever written was penned by Schlitz and sung by Rogers. The line:

“The best you can hope for is to die in your sleep”

Pretty hard to argue with that line.

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January 15, 2018
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Larry Adamson

Posted June 29, 2019

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A SUGGESTION

June 28, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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I think far too often we fail to acknowledge our appreciation. I know in my lifetime I have.

I grew up in the late 1950s’. A time of great radio and great radio personalities. Most every station of any size in any town had people on the radio that became popular with a faithful listening audience.

In my hometown station WBOW (On the Banks of the Wabash) was such. Certain disc jockeys as they were called were popular. Most  kids knew what time they came on the air, recognized their theme song. I could list various stations and radio personalities. Some where along the line radio changed. In my opinion today we have too much talk radio. I vote bring more music, less talk.

Two current day local exceptions here in the Nashville area are Eddie Stubbs and Jeff Pogue. Both of them have shows on the world famous WSM 650 on your dial here in Nashville. Not only do they play music but they provide stories about the music, history of the song, who wrote it, how it came about,etc.

Stubbs has one night in particular that I try not to miss. He calls it “Way Back Wednesday.” Where he goes back years into music and gives information regarding the song, maybe what was happening in country at the time. Sometimes maybe even an interview with someone about the history of that music. I like the show so much that even if I cannot listen live I tape his five hour show and listen to it in my car during the week. Pogue does something similar with a show called, “That Week in Music.”

Recently my wife and I were having dinner in downtown Nashville. After dinner we were going to a music show at the Ryman just a couple blocks from where we were eating. I look over at a  table not far from where we are sitting and there sits Eddie Subbs. He is having dinner by himself. We were finished eating and about to leave. The left part of my brain said, “No don’t say anything, he’s eating, don’t bother him. that might be thought rude of you. The right part of my brain said “Yea go tell him how much you appreciate his show.”

“Excuse me Mr. Stubbs I’m sorry to bother you especially as you are having dinner but my wife and I are just leaving and I wanted to come over and tell you how much I enjoy you on the radio. I especially enjoy your “Way Back Wednesday” show.” With that Mr. Stubbs stood up extended his hand and said, “Why thank you, you really don’t know how much I appreciate that. You sit at that mike night in and night out, you know or you think folks are listening but when someone makes the effort to tell you that really makes me feel good.” With that I again thanked him and we left. I’m glad I ignored  the left and listen to the right side of my brain.

Suggestion. If you see something  good and you like it, if possible, make your feelings known to the source. That’s true with whatever it might be, if its good and you like it say so. It may help that good and what you appreciate to continue.

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April 24, 2019
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Larry Adamson

Posted June 29, 2019

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PINK FLOYD

June 27, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

 

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                                            A BIG PINK PIG 
 
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Recently at my bagel place as I took a swig of my coffee a Pink Floyd song was playing  in the background. It brought back this memory.
 
Thirty-two years ago (1987) I sat with our seventeen year old son at a Pink Floyd concert at the Meadowlands in N.J. What was I doing there, good question. Well I had a kid that wanted to see them. As I am sitting there twenty thousand fans are on their feet, cheering, waving, hollering, flipping their lighters as this huge inflated pink pig went across the top of the arena. Quite a site I must say. 
 
Some years later I would be sitting in a church service when of all things the minister referenced Pink Floyd. On a large wall screen he had the album “The Wall” and he begins quoting lyrics from the album. Now I perk up. Hey I bet I’m the only old guy in this auditorium this morning who has been to a Pink Floyd concert.
 
The rev now has my attention, any man that will walk into a church pulpit and start by talking about Pink Floyd has my undivided attention. From Pink Floyd he went on to build a lesson that had to do with the beginning and ending of time, referencing the books of Genesis and Revelation. He said that the Pink Floyd album was what was called a concept album. Each song in that album he told the audience  built upon the previous song and how the words had to do with a wall being built in the life of the artist. He went on from there to make a comparison of how scripture and the bible is a group of books built upon each other.  
 
You know a number of years passed from the time my son and I attended that concert and me hearing the ministers thoughts. But on that morning I was made to realize that sometimes we can be exposed to things we think we have no interest or knowledge only later come to a better understanding. To see how things we don’t understand have a relationship to things we do.
 
Now I did not run out and buy the greatest hits of Pink Floyd. They are no threat to my interest of Elvis. But now when I hear something regarding Pink Floyd I will have a frame of reference better than what I might have had.
Two things are often needed for us to come to a better understanding of things we do not know, one is more information and the other is time.  
 
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May 15, 2019
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Larry Adamson 
Posted June  28, 2019

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WHERE IS IT?

June 26, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Often my wife will send me to the store. Grocery type place, from the local Publix’s, Kroger, Walmart or Sam’s Club. I am not the most adept shopper and  noted for a lack of patience. Someone once said of me that when patience was passed out I had already left the room.

I look at my list and I’m still lacking one thing. Well actually two things, A jug of sweet tea and a jug of un-sweet tea. Now the hunt begins. I make more laps around the place than a rookie taking his driver’s test at Indianapolis. Can’t find it. Nope not there. All the time the words of my wife keep rolling thru my head, “slow down, now look.”

Finally I give up and ask a fella working there. He looks at me like I have asked some question that would appear on Jeopardy. He doesn’t know. Now I see a young lady behind a counter and so I go and, “Mama can you tell me where the tea is?” “Sure, well let me just take you it might be easier if I show you than tell you, it’s kinda confusing.” Hearing that word confusing made me feel a bit better. (Would you tell my wife that?)

She walks to a larger freezer, pulls two jugs from the freezer and places them in my cart. “Young lady, what’s your name,” I ask.  “Dee Ann,” she replies. “Well Dee Ann thank you for taking your time to show me.” “Oh no problem, no problem at all.”

You know  its really  nice when you don’t know something and someone will take the time to help you, to “teach” you, show you rather than look at you like you are stupid. By the way that is true for a lot of things in life that we do not know.

Not knowing does not make one stupid, Sometimes we all just don’t know where the “tea” is. It’s nice to be shown rather than shouted at.

Again Dee Ann thank you.
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May 26, 2019
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Larry Adamson

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MIGHTY CASEY

June 26, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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(Now stay with me)

MIGHTY CASEY

The outlook wasn’t brilliant for the Mudville nine that day
The score stood four to two with but one inning more to play.
And then when Cooney died at first, and Barrow’s did the same
A sickly silence fell upon patrons of the game.

A straggling few got up to go in deep despair.
The rest clung to hope which springs eternal in the human breast
They thought if only Casey could but get a whack at that
We’d put up even money now with Casey at the bat

But Flynn preceded Casey as did also Jimmy Blake,
and the former was a lulu and the later was a cake;
So upon that stricken multitude grim melancholy sat.
For there seemed but little chance of Casey’s getting to the bat

But Flynn let drive a single to the wonderment of all,
And Blake, the much despised tore the cover off the ball:
And when the dust had lifted, and the men saw what had occurred,
There was Jimmy safe at second and Flynn a-hugging third.

Then from 5,000 throats and more there rose a lusty yell;
It rumbled through the valley, it rattled in the dell’
It knocked upon the flat, for Casey, might Casey was advancing to the bat

There was ease in Casey’s manner as he stepped into his place’
There was pride in Casey’s bearing and a smile on Casey’s face
And when, responding to the cheers, he lightly doffed his hat
No stranger in the crowd could doubt ’twas Casey at the bat

Well I’ll just cut to the chase…you get the picture…Ole Casey is gonna save the day for the Mudville nine…right….well

Somewhere in this favored land the sun is shining bright
The band is playing somewhere and somewhere hearts are light
And somewhere men are laughing and somewhere children shout:

Folks: Got bad news…..Mighty Casey stuck out……

What no trophy. No trophy? Aw come on how can you do that to Casey. Not even a Certificate of Participation?

Poor Casey. No trophy for the mighty Casey.  Casey going home without a trophy……can’t be.

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June 23, 2019

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Larry Adamson

Posted June 26, 2019

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WEAR IT WELL

June 25, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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                                       WEAR IT WELL
 
The other night as I sat in my living room I watched a young man who had some trouble “wearing something well.”
 
I was fortunate this past year to be privy to a locker room after a basketball game and heard a coach give some young men one of the best pieces of advice they might receive in their young lives. 
 
The team had just won a big game against a rival school. They had played very well. The kids were all sitting down as the  coach was walking among them telling them how pleased and proud he was of them.  Often he called out a name for praise. But it was the last thing he said to them that stayed with me. “Ok  guys, great game, I am so pleased, proud and happy for each of you. You all had a part in this game and success tonight. Now the last thing as you leave here tonight…wear this victory.” “Wear this victory well.” I think the kids got what he was saying.
This past week I watched as a college baseball player had some trouble doing that. The young man, a pitcher, was performing well. It was late in the game he had just struck out the last two batters he faced. His team was up two to one in the score. As he left the mound ending the inning walking to his team’s dugout for whatever reason he  mouthed words and then gestured to the opposing crowd. Done in an arrogant manor. I came out of my seat as I watched in somewhat disbelief.
Needless to say the young man was having some difficulties in wearing his success well. Also, not smart. The opposing team at their next bats  rallied from behind and ended up winning the game.  The announcers felt the young man’s actions could have factored into the team rallying and victory. The gesturing pitcher’s team this lost ended their season and chances in the tournament.
One would hope that the young man learned a lesson in “wearing success.” Handling success can often be an issue for many. But all could profit by remembering the coach in the locker telling his players as they left “wear this well.”
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June 28, 2019
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Larry Adamson
Posted June 25, 2019

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SURPRISE–SURPRISE

June 24, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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                                      SURPRISE–SURPRISE
 
           “Ma, if we don’t meet again, we’ll meet in heaven.”
 
                            Jesse James–Said to his mother 
 
I was reminded of something an old friend of mine once said of heaven:
                 “Might be some surprises there, who’s there and who’s not.”
 
True probably true. Probably so.
 
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June 23, 2019
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Larry Adamson
 
                                      
     
                 
 
 

                                   

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WORD ASSOCIATION

June 23, 2019 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

 
 
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I once had a teacher who would start class in a rather unusual way. At the time I didn’t think much about it but later when I started teaching I found myself copying what she did. 
 
Not ever class, but very often she would begin the class by saying, “OK I’m giving each of you sixty seconds to think of a word. That  word should create an emotion. You may be the one I ask for your word. ” Then she gave us an example. She said, “My one word is Hitler.” We all sat kinda puzzled. Then she told us that during WWII she was a new bride and her husband of a few months was shipped to Europe and killed in the war in Germany. We got the picture.
 
This past week I went with my wife to her oncology doctor. Walking into the office immediately behind where the receptionists sat in big letters was one word:                                                   Oncology.                                 
I was there with my wife seeing her  doctor for her three month check-up of her recent blood work. She and I sat down on the couch. The room was full. After a minute or two I leaned over and said to her, “Everybody in this room has cancer.” It was said more as a statement not as a question. I knew the answer, folks don’t come and sit in an oncology doctor’s office to read the paper or pass the time of day. In fact I know personally some who count the days until they have to come back.
 
As I thought about that old one word emotion teacher and the word on the wall I thought about a quote I had read  a few evenings previous. I cannot remember who said it and I may be quoting it a bit wrong but it went something like this:
 
                 “Just remember that everyday for someone
                                      is not a good day.”
As I looked at that word on the wall and looked around this room, I thought how often I complain at things that pale so in comparison.  The author William Faulkner once said: “If you’re not ashamed of yourself now and then, you’re no honest.”
Bill, looking around the room and thinking of things I often complain about in comparison,  yes, I felt ashamed and I should be.  
You? 
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June 19, 2019
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Larry Adamson 
Posted June 23, 2019
 

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Larry Adamson was raised in Indiana.  After teaching and coaching for several years he worked as Director of Championships at the United States Golf Association in NJ.  He’s retired, living just outside Nashville,TN.  He blogs about his favorite things: sports, music, old cars, and the good ole days.




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