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RAY CONNIFF

December 28, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

Funny isn’t it almost strange how something so small so insignificant can spark a memory, bring back a smile. Sometimes even a tear or a tug at our heart.

Starting in 1960 through 1964 I began spending sometime in Nashville,Tennessee as I had a good friend going to college there. I did not go to school there but did spend a lot of time visiting him at various times while he was in school there.

Today I walked into one of my frequent old book and music stores. Almost weekly I hit these places. Nashville has some of the best old music stores of any place in the country. The first thing I saw there caused me to stop, smile and reflect. I saw this cd.

My friend while in college dated this girl and she was often critical well actually she often bad mouthing the two of us, our taste in music. We often doubled date while I would visit him on campus. Always on the car radio we would set the station to WLAC. WLAC was one of the first stations back then to play what they called  race music. Especially at night beginning about 9 PM such disc jockeys as Hoss Allen, Big Hugh Baby or John R. would play the likes of Muddy Waters, Little Richard, Little Willie John, Chuck Willis, Jimmy Reed. The list could go on and on.  My buddy and I we loved that music. We never changed the station, we only upped the volume. Last button on the dial WLAC 1510 on your dial.

One night he and I went to dorm to pick-up our dates. He was always “fixing me” up with various friends of his girl friend. The one who was the music critic. A lot of the girls then lived in what they called suites where they shared living quarters with 4-5 other girls. That evening as our dates came to meet us both of them had in their hands an album, record album. It was not Muddy, or Jimmy or Little Richard it was none of our favorite voices of the day. They both handed an album to each of us and said no WLAC tonight  They had made a tape and said that would be the music of the evening. Oh no…..it was the music of Ray Conniff.

Today as I walked in the store the first thing I saw laying on a counter was this cd, “The Ray Conniff Treasury.”

Note I didn’t say the memory was insignificant. The spark that created it might be small  but not the memory and the surroundings of that memory. Hey I even bought the cd.  Guess what is now playing on my desk cd player? You don’t have to guess do  you.

A lot of memories of things from our past can be sparked by something small, but generally never the recall of that memory is small. As the song says, “The world may have forgotten but the song remembers.”

You…you ever get that spark?

July 25, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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FATE

December 27, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

This book is one of my favorite books for a lot of reasons. It is not just about basketball it also is about life. I have heard Conroy speak a few times…interessting guy…but most everyone …loses at something…Sadly he passed away a little over a year ago.

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“Fate hides in veils and approaches from behind with cards marked and chess pieces disfigured. You never know when a door you left unlocked will usher in a lost exterminator, a deposed queen, or the love of your life.”
 My Losing Season–Pat Conroy

November 2, 2016
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Larry Adamson

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KNOWS NOT OF

December 26, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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“The heart has it’s reasons… which reason knows nothing of. Often we know the truth not only by reason but by the heart.”
Blaise Pascal

December 10, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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ALWAYS

December 25, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Love always….stoops.
​Unknown

Maybe that’s a thought for us on this Christmas day…and into a new year.
Over early morning coffee I read this. Needs no further comment.

December 25, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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CAN I HELP YOU WITH YOURS?

December 23, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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You know sometimes how we view matters (the world) may hinge upon where and what we are always looking for. Yes, I also am frustrated with many matters I see in the world today. But I refuse to subscribe in the words of some, “All the world is going to ———-in a hand basket.”

Today at my coffee place I saw a man slip a large bill in the hand of a well deserving waitress. As he gave her a hug (yes sadly– maybe he best be careful doing such you think)  he wished her a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Tears came to her eyes.  I saw another party, as they left the cash register paying for their coffee, hand another waitress an envelope in which there also was  a gift of cash.

I saw another person pull up in front of the coffee place and it was evident they were having difficulty exiting the car as they were on crutches. I saw a young man get up from his table go outside, hold the car door open and assist an elderly man in getting into the coffee place.

After the coffee place I took an article back to TJ-Max for my wife. As I walked in and got in line I counted twenty-four people ahead of me. If my wife had been with me I know  the next sentence would  have been:”Now settle down and  have some patience.”  As we got closer to the return clerk a lady in front of me with a cart full, looked like she had taken everything from the shelves turned and said to me, “Why don’t you  in front of me, you only have one item, no need for me to keep you waiting.” What? She insisted and so I did and thanked her much.

Now one more stop. Going to the post office a few days before Christmas, about as much fun as a root canal. Got in a line to buy stamps that stretched from Brentwood, TN to Birmingham, Al. After I got my stamps I went to a table to put the stamps on the mountain of cards I had.

There was a lady next to me doing the same. And then low and behold this happened. This lady reached over lightly touched my arm and said,”I’m finished putting stamps on my cards, can I help you finish with yours?”

“Can I help you with yours?”

Six words…”Can I help you with yours?” Six great words with that one classic word: help. There is still a lot of good folks out there in everyday life.

December 18, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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BEYOND THE BREEZE

December 22, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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I have referenced my high school friend Mike Brinkman on other postings. Recently I saw this writing of Mike’s and ask his permission to post.  Mike wrote this in the early ’70s.

As trees will never know what fruitful seeds
They bore to grow and live beyond themselves,
Nor know upon their death if they will be
Some statue, paper, home, desk, book, or shelves,However small or great–however known–
We live, we act, we die; and many deeds
Remain awake and live beyond our lives–
But no-one knows the number of his seeds.

Mike has a way with words.

One never knows for sure  their influence…the number of their seeds. I like that thought.

December 14, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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THREE THINGS THAT OFTEN HELP

December 20, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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You know three things that can often help one understand…. where others often do not:
Age–Perspective–Experience

October 4, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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F. SCOTT FITZGERALD

December 18, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Fitzgerald along with Ernest Hemingway and William Faulkner are considered three of America’s greatest writers.

Fitzgerald died of a heart attack on December 21st, 1940 at the age of forty-four.

In the last year of his life Fitzgerald had earned less than fifteen dollars in royalties from his writings.

I would think if one was/is going to make their living from the arts… it is best they learn the meaning of the word “Budget.”

“Rich girls don’t marry poor boys.”
“There are no second acts in life.”
F.Scott Fitzgerald

October 21, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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NEW KID IN TOWN

December 17, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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I like the band, The Eagles. I like them for various reasons and one is their songs often tell a story. I can picture a guy standing on a corner in Winslow, AZ. My wife and I were there a few weeks ago. I can see that girl on a flat bed Ford. Or I smile when I think of the line about city girls seem to find out early. Think about that line for a minute.

“Johnny come lately, the new kid in town.”

I heard the song “New Kid in Town” yesterday. That same day I received an email from an old high school friend of mine, Mike. The song made me think of Mike and the time he moved to our little town.

I grew up in a very small town, you wouldn’t even call it a town, just a village or a community. Everyone knew everyone, not only did we all know each other, but we also knew everyone’s dog’s name. Out of our class of twenty-seven, I think twenty-three of us had been in school together all twelve years. It was like a small family. So if someone new came to our school, it was a point of interest. “Whose the new girl, new boy?” This was the most often asked question in school and in the community. And in the fall of 1959 a new kid shows up.

It was our senior year at our small school and we had twenty-seven  in our class; about twenty girls and seven boys (pretty good odds). At that time a new kid did come to  our town, Mike. Mike was not like a lot of others in our class, and I don’t mean in any bad or negative way. Mike had no problem asking questions and he asked questions of anyone, most of all teachers. In class his hand was up more times than a sinner seeking salvation at a revival. Often I would see him with what I might think as a “strange books”. He didn’t read a lot of sports stuff, but he might have a book of poetry. Poetry? Individually, he took a foreign language with one of the teachers on staff as our school didn’t offer a foreign language class. Hey, to some of us, English was foreign. Mike was the kind of kid that was a bit more savvy and street wise than the rest of us.

Mike was not, well let’s just say basketball was not his sport. I don’t think anyone in the history of our school was ever cut from the basketball team. I am not sure what happened with Mike and his round ball efforts, but I think he exited the gym. In the spring we had a rag tag track team and Mike showed up and, of all things, wanted to be our pole vaulter. Our school didn’t even have a vaulting pole; really we didn’t. And now here is this new kid in our school trying to climb a pole and get over a bar.

In 2010 I went back to my old high school for our fiftieth class reunion and met up with Mike once again. It was a treat to see him and to reminiscence from whence we both came, and who we were at that time. Mike went on to be a very successful college professor, married with kids and many grand kids.

We have continued to keep in touch and below is something I received the other day from Mike; the same day I heard the Eagles song, “New Kid in Town.” Mike said this was something he had written forty-five years ago. He was responding to something I had written on my blog about Willy Loman and the play Death of a Salesman.

More importantly I want to say how grateful I am that in 1959-60 in our little community in southwestern Indiana we had this “new kid who came to our town.” In his way he challenged us to get out of our comfort zone. He helped me realize there was a lot of other things and folks  that were a bit different than how and where we were raised.

DREAMS
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We all must take the time to dream
And think of things beyond the now
When all our aggravations seem
To get the upper hand somehow.

I well recall my younger days
When dream misplaced those ticks of time
As I stole forth a stowaway
O’er seas of pleasure in my mind.

My voyage now is rearranged
Beyond what youthful dreams explore.
Yet time for dreaming has not changed,
For dreams lead on to my unfound shores.
MWB

Supposedly it was once said of me, “I never thought he would get out of, or very far from Pimento.” How little we often know of another.

Mike, thank you. You helped me (us) to see and realize that there  certainly was  a whole other world out there much larger than any of our beginnings.

November 20, 2017
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Larry Adamson

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HOSPITALITY

December 17, 2017 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Often people will want to do something for another. Often they think something big, extravagant has to be done or it to really  would not mean anything.

You know some of the best stories about life, goodness, kindness, generosity can be found in the Old Testament of the Bible. Now before someone wants to take me to task, yes there are some not so pleasant stories recorded and some difficult ones to understand. And yes I know there are some folks who call Biblical stories, fairy tales. OK. Read them for what you think is worth.

In II Kings chapter four there’s a fella, Elisha, who is passing through this town. For some reason a lady in this town engages in conversation with him and from that meeting invites him to her home for a meal. For whatever reason this fella continues the pattern of passing through this town and she continues “When you’re in town stop and eat with us.” He does.

The lady even goes further. For some reason she seems to sense that he is a good man, possibly has this pattern of coming through their town for a special reason. Thus she approaches her husband, “Hey ol’ Elisha he comes this way often, why don’t we do something special for him? Her husband is in agreement, probably having shared meals with him and has also come to appreciate him.

What do they do? Well of all things how crazy is this? They create within their own home  a small room upstairs at their house. Maybe in their attic or second floor. Then they furnish it with a bed, desk, chair and lamp so when he comes to town each time he will have a place to stay say rather than the Holiday Inn.

Interesting it how this hospitality came about. One person noticing another person. Wonder where she saw him, at the bus stop, standing on the corner, at a 7-11, Starbucks, getting coffee at McDonald’s? The point is she saw him, engaged him, learned something about him, then “Hey the next time you’re in town stay with us, we have an extra room you can rest, sleep there and then be on your way.”

Hospitality. A great gift that one can give to another.

December 16, 2017
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​Larry Adamson

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Larry Adamson was raised in Indiana.  After teaching and coaching for several years he worked as Director of Championships at the United States Golf Association in NJ.  He’s retired, living just outside Nashville,TN.  He blogs about his favorite things: sports, music, old cars, and the good ole days.




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