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I’M LEAVING IT UP TO YOU

June 28, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Just some thoughts:

Early this damp, rainy summer morning as I pulled from our drive-way in my old ’65 Corvette, I slipped in an old cassette. I was headed to my coffee place and then to play golf. I smiled as the first song that came on was the classic Dale and Grace hit declaring that “I’m Leavin’ It Up To You.”
 

I’d like to have all the quarters I dropped into a juke box when that song became a hit. It was around 1962 or 1963 and I was in college. Dale Houston and Grace Broussard recorded this song on a small label out of Louisiana and it went to number one. I can still hear it playing on the jukebox in the college grill.
 

Back then when I might have been listening to the lyrics to that song, I had no idea that forty-two years later I would be standing back stage at a  three day Cajun festival in Gonzales, Louisiana talking with Grace Broussard for a few minutes before she went on stage to perform and she would close her show with that song.
 

The song asks a classic question that probably has been asked thousands of times, “What is gonna happen to this relationship?”​

“I’m Leavin’ It Up To You”
 
I’m leavin’ it all up to you-ooh-ooh
You decide what you’re gonna do
Now do you want my love or are we through?
That’s why I’m leavin’ it up to you
You decide what you’re gonna do
Now do you want my love or are we through?
I’ve got my heart in my hand/ I don’t understand
Baby what, what have I done wrong?
You know, I worship the ground that you walk
That’s why I’m leavin’ it up to you
You decide what you’re gonna do or are we through?
 
(Don F. Harris – Dewey Terry)

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Have you ever had that said to you? Did you ever say that to someone?
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It was relevant in 1963 and all times previous and since.
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July 13, 2016
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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YOU THINK YOU RECOGNIZE EVIL?

June 28, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Below is something I wrote in 2009. Ann Rule was one of the more known writer’s of non-fiction crime books. Often I read her material/ this book was rather chilling to say the least.

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Just some thoughts:

So you think you know evil when you see it? Well not always.

He confessed to thirty murders he committed between 1974-1978. He was an American serial killer, kidnapper, rapist and a necrophiliac. He was probably guilty of even more murders than he confessed to. He was considered handsome, intelligent and charismatic. If you saw him chances are you would be attracted to him. He often used these qualities to take advantage of young women. He would even perform sexual acts with decomposing corpses. He decapitated at least twelve of his victims. He even kept some of the severed heads in his apartment for mementos. He was cleaver and engineered two dramatic escapes when once in custody of the authorities. He was described as a sadistic sociopath who took pleasure from another human’s pain and the control he had over his victims. He was evil beyond belief, evil on steroids. 

As a young girl, having relatives involved as law officers, she always had been interested in crime. She once said, “I was always interested in why and how folks got themselves locked up.” Over the years she went on to write some of the best and most read non-fiction crime books of  past years. 

In 1971 she started her career in crime writing and took a job volunteering to work the night shift at a suicide hotline. Sitting next to her and also answering phones on those evenings was a young law student. She described him by saying; “I remember thinking that if I were younger and single this would be almost the perfect man.” 

The lady of crime writing fame was Ann Rule; I recently read her book The Stranger Beside Me. The handsome, charming, dashing, intelligent young man sitting next to her on those evenings at the hotline office was the one described in the opening paragraph. His name, Ted Bundy. 

Rule was once asked if she was ever afraid when she worked next to Bundy. “No, I had always prided myself on my ability to detect aberrance in other humans because of my experience and training and I had that innate skill. I have berated myself silently for a long time because I saw nothing threatening or disturbing in Ted’s façade. He was kind to me, solicitous of my safety and seemingly empathetic. The only clue I had was that my dog, who liked everyone, didn’t like Ted at all. Whenever he bent over my desk at the Crisis Clinic, she growled and the hackles on her neck stood up. The lesson is clear: “Pay attention to your dog.” We think one can always recognize evil? Oh really?”
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“People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
(I Samuel 16:7)

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August 15, 2009
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson
 

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IS THIS TRUE?

June 26, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Just some thoughts:​

He was born in North Dakota March 20, 1908 and died June 10th 1988. He wrote over one hundred novels  and two-hundred and fifty short stories. His works have sold over three-hundred and fifty million copies and translated into ten languages.  He also said a lot of things that could cause one to pause and think….such as what is quoted below….

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“It has occurred to me that a man needs to know but two sentences
 to survive. The first is to ask for food, the second to tell a woman
 he loves her. If he must dispense with one or the other, by all means
let it be the first. For surely if you tell a woman you love her, she
will feed you.”
 
(Louie L’Amour)
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You think?
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June 26, 2016
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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ANGEL ON MY SHOULDER

June 24, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Below is something I wrote nearly six years ago. The two grand kids..well they are now six years old from that time…but I bet they and I know..myself…we all still struggle with that “angel on one shoulder and devil on the others.” Time generally does not remove such.

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​Just some thoughts:

Recently I was taking two of our grandchildren, Lawson and Jake, to a Saturday afternoon movie.

While in the car on the way I asked one of my young grandson’s about some “mischief” he had gotten himself into earlier that week. In his telling of such he said something rather profound, something I will never forget.
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​​  “Pop Pop, sometimes I feel like I have an angel sitting on one shoulder
and the devil sitting on the other and in the middle is my heart. 
Sometimes I just need help in trying to be good.”
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​Wow! Wow a second time. One does not have to be a child to identify with those thoughts of wisdom. “Sometimes I feel like I have an angel on my shoulder, the devil on the other, and my heart right in the middle.” I wanted to tell him as he grew older it would get better, easier, but I did not.

I knew better because we all need help with trying to be good no matter what our age. It seems something is always sitting on our shoulders.

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September 14, 2010
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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LABELS

June 23, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Often an unfair practice…

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Just some thoughts:

We’ve all heard them and in many cases we have used them – labels.
 
 Often they were ridiculed and called names. Names like chicken, sissies, more specifically, “pill pushers.”  One in particular was called “Preacher.” Preacher Davis because of his religious convictions chose not to serve in the same military capacity in WWII that many others did. Preacher just could not bring himself to kill someone. One lieutenant said that often he and his platoon mildly despised the men of the Medical Corps because they were conscientious objectors. So often in WWII many fellow soldiers spoke harshly of those who chose to be a medic as Preacher did. 
 
That all changed when something happened; combat. In combat they became loved, admired and respected. 
“It all became different. They called you Medic and before you
know it, it was Doc. I was nineteen years old at the time.”
(Medic Buddy Gianelloni: Citizen Soldier-Stephen Ambrose)
 
“Doc Mellon was the bravest kid I ever saw. He came running right
through the machine-gun fire and put a tourniquet on my arm.”
(Private Mike DeBello: Citizen Solider-Stephen Ambrose)
 
“We had so much faith in our medics’ ability that we firmly
believed we would not die if they got to us in time.”
(Officer of the 90th Division: Citizen Solider-Stephen Ambrose)

Hum. It might be best to be careful about the use of labels. One never knows when they may have need of their services.

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May 15, 2010
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson
 

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SHE LEFT ME WITH MORE THAN I LEFT HER

June 21, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Below is something I wrote March 12, 2013. I have read the book more than once, referred to it often and seen the movie multiple times. 

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Just some thoughts:

Thank goodness somewhere in my past someone lit the spark of reading for me; I’ll give strong credit to my high school English teacher, Mrs. Riddle. At my 50th high school reunion I had the opportunity to personally thank her, not only for helping to create my interest in reading, but for her patience with me and probably many others in our class. I must say, while she created that reading interest, the English skills she taught us sadly remain lacking on my part. If you have read many of my “just some thoughts,” you know that really is an understatement.

 
As I get older, I find myself doing something regarding reading that I would have seldom done in the past. I now enjoy reading a book for a second, or maybe even a third, time. Often, I now find myself going back and picking up a previous reading; one such example is the book The Bridges of Madison County. It was probably made more famous to most people by the movie of the same name with Clint Eastwood and Meryl Streep. 

 
Tonight, I picked up a Robert James Waller book for the umpteenth time. In the first chapter the main character, Robert Kincaid, makes a statement that gave me pause.  Kincaid is referencing his ex-wife, Marian, when saying, “She left me with more than I left her.” As he drove along the back roads in Minnesota he could still recall her influence, even though that break-up had been nine years previous.

 
I thought about that statement and wondered if score was kept on all of us, would the balance be in favor of “us or them.” Did that special someone leave more of themselves on us/with us than we left on them? Have we had more influence on others, or has the influence been more on us?

                                                 “She left me with more than I left her.”

 I guess he’s saying there is more of her left with me than me with her.

You ever have someone leave more on———— or with you, than you left on them?
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March 12, 2013
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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WHERE WOULD YOU HANG IT?

June 20, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Below is something I wrote  in 2012.  

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Just some thoughts:

If you were part of a famous happening in your country’s history and were in a picture that is considered one of the most famous in your country’s history, where would you hang it?

Only once in his lifetime did his wife and eight children hear a remark from him about the picture. We generally like pictures, and many folks like to have them taken where there is recognition and some note of importance. Now, come on, don’t be so vain, you know we do.

As I said, he only acknowledged this picture once, and he described it as one of the happiest moments in his life. He did not carry it, or even have a copy. He was asked to appear on television regarding this picture. He never did. The picture was seen by millions around the world, yet it wasn’t even in his possession. The picture appeared on magazine covers the front page of over one thousand newspapers, and it brought praise and respect from millions; and still he had not one copy. There was no question that this was him in the picture, and documents could verify such. The picture was taken with him and five of his closest friends. You would think he would want a copy, wouldn’t you? A picture of you and old friends; the kind of friends you would trust with your life. It is a picture that at one time millions would have recognized, but practically no one could name one person in the picture. I am not sure how many today would even have a clue regarding the picture and its history. American’s knowledge of its history is sadly fading.

I think about that famous picture and ask, “You don’t have one?” Me, you bet I would. Come on, you too. Sitting not far from me is a picture of four famous sports personalities, and there I am right in the middle. Also, hanging here in my office is a copy of the front page of the Wall Street Journal– a picture and article in which I was featured. Front page. What was the Carly Simon song?  “You’re So Vain?” Any picture as famous as the one this man was in, yes, all of us would have one and have it where it was most noticeable.

That’s the difference in him and us. The picture is of six boys: Rene, Harlon, Franklin, Mike, Ira and John. Less than thirty days after that picture was taken, only three of them would be alive. John, well, that was John Bradley. He was the last living member from that group. He died in 1994, living in Wisconsin. He never had a copy of that picture, maybe he didn’t need one. I bet that picture and what took place around it never left his mind. Never. Oh, the picture, it was of six Marines, one of which was John Bradley, raising the American flag on Mt.Suribachi on the island of Iwo Jima in 1945 near the end of WW II.

There are some things and some people who have been in our lives and their picture never leaves us; the picture or pictures they always remain.

 “What a person often remembers the most they talk about the least”
(Louie L’Amour)
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August 9, 2012
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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FATHER’S DAY-2016

June 16, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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This coming Sunday June 19th is Father’s Day…I share these thoughts…

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​​Just some thoughts:

One of my favorite Bible characters is David.
 
A lot has been written and said about David. He’s the guy with the slingshot, a war hero, king, had a famous affair, a dysfunctional family, plotted to have a man killed and the list could go on and on. As another Father’s Day approaches I’d  like to remember a story that is told of David that involved he and a man named Jonathan.
 
As young men David and Jonathan became very good friends. One writing describes this relationship “as souls that knitted together.”  Over the years they  came to have a special friendship, a special bond. Over time Jonathan would be killed in battle along with his father Saul. David’s grief over this death was great. (II Samuel–“David ripped his clothes to ribbons.”
 
Life goes on and David becomes King. He has made it to the top. Time and events pass and one day David asked “is there anyone left of Saul’s family?” Saul was Jonathan’s father and had been David’s number one enemy during much of his early life.  Strange question one might ask especially when the one you are asking about certainly did you no favors. David ask that question because “I’d like to show him some kindness in honor of Jonathan.” (II Samuel 9:1) There was a servant in David’s court who had been a servant of Saul’s and heard about the request. He came to David and told him, “yes, yes there is.” But there was a “but” in that answer. (Seems that often is the case.) “Well there is this kid but he was dropped by his nurse when he was a baby and hey he’s a cripple. You know the kid is lame in both feet.” Kinda like you might want to leave well enough alone.
 
David was told that Jonathan’s son name was Mephibosheth. (Personally I would have called him Mike for short.) David sent for him. He comes to meet David. Now can you imagine what thoughts must be going through this guy’s mind as he approaches the palace? “Oh, oh this can’t be  good.” During those times when kings won wars they pretty quickly took care of their enemies and especially family members of those who had been in power. Get them out of the way so they would be no threat.
 
The “Message” bible has a great line Mephibosheth says as he is shuffling and stammering his way before David.
                                         “Who am I that you pay attention to a stray dog like me?”
He certainly had a rather high opinion of himself didn’t’ he?
 
Can you imagine his surprise when David tells this young man that he wanted to do something special for him in memory of his grandfather, Saul and his father, Jonathan. I bet he did a double take when told by David that everything that once had belonged to his grandfather and father, land, whatever, everything would now be given back to the family through him. The real kicker, Mephibosheth was told, “from now on you will take all your meals at my table. You will sit at my feet the rest of your life. You are part of my family.”
 
This son of David’s good friend Jonathan would now be given status in the king’s family. Things would now come to him for the rest of his life that previously would never have happened.  No way. He would for the rest of his life be given a place of honor and respect…..all because of one thing…or rather all because of one person. His dad, his father.
 
On this Father’s Day 2016 may I suggest that we take a moment to reflect upon the goodness that many of us received because of our fathers. 

Personally I shudder to think what my life might have been like if my adopted father had not come into my life. I say special pray and words of thanks.
 
I hope you have been as fortunate as I.
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​June 16, 2016
Keep on,
Larry Adamson

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WHO I AM

June 14, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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I have been told there are more than 17,000 songwriters in Nashville.

One of those songwriters happens to be our friend, Dan Harrell. Below you will find the lyrics to a song he recently penned. If you write a book or a novel you have many pages and chapters in which to tell your story. Not so with a song; as a songwriter must tell his story in a matter of three minutes or less. I think the following song tells it well as I see a picture in the lyrics:

“Who I Am”
 
I volunteered in Memory Care where she stayed
I noticed him ‘cause he came to see her everyday
Her face lit up every time he walked into the room
Her eyes wide like a bride who sees her groom
 
One day I said, tell me all about the love between you two
He said, “I am the man who loved her years ago
I hurt her so bad she could not forgive or let it go
You’ve heard it said time heals every wound now I know it can
 
She loves me she doesn’t know who I am
She’s got no family left and none of her kids ever come around
That last one that she married he let her down
As for me I guess she lost her bitterness when she lost her mind
All she knows is I’m someone who cares and treats her kind
 
So here I am just tryin’ to make up for lost time
He said, good can come even from the worst of circumstances
Don’t give up on love and keep your faith in second chances
 
(Dan Harrell)
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June 14, 2016
Keep on,
Larry Adamson

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LUCY GROWS UP

June 13, 2016 By Larry Adamson Leave a Comment

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Just some thoughts:
Over the past few years I have taken an interest in C.S.Lewis and his various writings.  I even took a college class on the life and times of Lewis and found it to be very interesting and rewarding. In fact I took the class twice. 
 
In Lewis’s writing Prince Caspian Lucy is seen observing Asian (The Lion) thinking to herself, she thinks there he is shining in the moonlight with his huge shadow underneath him. She sees him so differently than any time previous. She rushes to him feeling her heart bursting if she loses a moment in doing so. She finds herself kissing him and putting her arms as far around his neck as she can. Then she buries her face in his mane.
            “Asian, Asian, Dear Asian,” sobbed Lucy. At last the great beast rolled over on his
             side so that Lucy fell, half sitting and half lying between his front paws. He bent forward
             and just touched her nose with his tongue. His warm breath came all round her. She
             gazed up into the large wise face. Welcome, child, he said.”
​Note Lucy’s reaction.   “Asian,” said Lucy, “you’re bigger.”
 
For the first time in her life she see this friend so differently that any time ever before.      
Asian reply:   
​                                    “That is because you are older, little one, answered he.”
 
Sometimes in life we may have looked at a person, a situation, perceived a matter in such a way only to find sometime maybe even years later that our perception, the way we had looked at that person, situation had changed. For some reason or reasons we now see it differently. Sometimes we may think it was “Asian” that had changed.
 
Had Asian really gotten bigger did he really change? No.  Often it is us who has changed. As Asian said to Lucy, “No you are older.”
 
 I think sometimes they call that maturity. 
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October 13, 2010
Keep on,
​Larry Adamson

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Larry Adamson was raised in Indiana.  After teaching and coaching for several years he worked as Director of Championships at the United States Golf Association in NJ.  He’s retired, living just outside Nashville,TN.  He blogs about his favorite things: sports, music, old cars, and the good ole days.




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